If there was one thing Cathy and Robert Jacob agreed on, their lawyers said recently, it was that their marriage was over.
After 26 years, they divorced in January 2003, but Mr. Jacob was unhappy with the financial terms imposed by the court and appealed. Last June, an appellate court reviewed the decision and decided that neither of the Jacobs had shown proper grounds for divorce, an unexpected decision that would be unlikely in other states.
And so, four years after they split up, the Jacobs are still married.
"There was never even a thought that the court would say, 'A pox on you both,' " said Suzanne K. Bracker, the lawyer for Mr. Jacob. "What people should know is that getting a divorce is not a slam dunk." Especially not in New York. By some measures, the state has the most obstacles to divorce. It is one of a handful that does not allow one spouse to unilaterally end a marriage. It is also one of the few without some form of one-step, no-fault divorce for couples like the Jacobs. copyright 2004 The New York Times Company, November 30. 2004