A New Jersey Family Judge says a 10-year-old should be a bridesmaid at her godmother's wedding instead of celebrating her divorced dad's 35th birthday. Cortney Hooper of Dover took her ex-husband, Steven Miller, to court after Miller said Friday night was part of his visitation time. Miller did see his daughter on his actual birthday, April 7, but his family planned the celebration for Friday. The judge ruled "a birthday party happens every year. A wedding is once-in-a-lifetime." Morristown Daily Record, April 12, 2010